Monday, April 28, 2008

Open you eyes & look at the difference.

Here i am again, blogging.
Later on i'll catch the history flight!
(:
I'm not being angry or anything with this person,
but i want to talk about insensitivity.


letting go




I'm naming no one here, and i'm referring to no one.
I think i've said a countless number of times, about how insensitive you are. Someone is sick and life's at risk and all you say is, 'oh sure to die.' Have you thoight about the words you use? And how it can either break or make a live. All you do is just say oh die, (die)(die). But have you thought about how the person involved is feeling in the first place? Instead of making the person feel better or cheering up, you be negative and tell straight that it's going to be death.
Even though, you know that that is probably the result, you don't have to say it you know, it doesn't mean that if you don't say it you're lying. Neither are you trying to run away from the truth, it's just called hoping, high hopes. Imagine yourself in the person's shoes, how would you feel when someone tells you, 'oh sure to die'? Won't you be upset & hurt?
Every human have feelings,
would you just be more humanly?



And you think doing that makes you so powerful,

and let me say speaking vulgarities isn't coool at all,
it just shows how limited your vocabulary is.
And that doesn't make you powerful either.

& then you think that my life must revolve around you, everything must be you.

But sadly, you're not all that i've got.
I've got other friends that i rather be with, but sadly i've to avoid them,
just to satisfy your desires.

I mean, i want to be them,

but you try to seperate me from them so it becomes,
just you & me.


Just so you know,

you won't be successful, so don't try.
I know you're trying very hard.

Esp YingYng & I share just too many things in common,
there isn't any wall between us,

we share with each other whatever we want,
(no secrets between us),
because we know that we won't share it with others,
so it's useless,
coming to me and gossiping about her,
and then going off to YingYng and gossiping about me,
because we'll share it with each other,
and it would only affect the 'friendship' that we share.
Just go ahead, keep on trying.
(:


Talking about gossips.
Yes it's not only with friends that you gossip about,
but YOUR teachers too?
I mean, what are you trying to achieve by spreading all this rumors?
Why don't you just go and check with the teacher if its true?
All you do is spread it.
& i hate doing that,
because it doesn't give the person a chance to defend herself.
& i won't spread the rumor.
The day will come, when i'll go and alert the teacher, & i promise i'll do that, if you don't stop.

I don't find it fair at all.
How did the teacher wrong you that you have to spread that?
& its not just some small rumor,
it's such a big one.
(Making it 2 actually.)


I mean i know you didn't start the first one.
But what made you want to start the second one?

Why don't you just go check it out?
(I don't really want to state the rumors here because i don't think it is nice to do so.)


Rumor 1:
What is wrong to get a bf/gf at that age or start a relationship? I mean it doesn't affect you in any way then why are you being so nosy about other's issues.
You want to get married after you retire? It's plain dumb to do so anyway.
I mean i don't find it wrong to start a relationship at that age, and you keep making fun of that,
just so you know,
it's not funny at all,
neither is it such a cool & wonderful thing to spread when you don't even know if it's true or not,
why don't you just clarify it then,
before you start spreading it.
After all the teacher has done for you,
you repay your 'kindness' to the teacher this way?


Rumor 2:

Why don't you take a look at it then,

does it look like she has one,
how do you even know that the picture was there?
Even if it was,
then how does it affect you again?
What's wrong with that again?
Just go and have a look with your own eyes, won't you?

Just what is wrong with people these days. Why can't they just give everyone their desired privacy? It's just so unfair to the teacher. Imagine the whole cohort knowing about it and then you teach almost all the classes and most of them knowing about the rumors? Why don't you put yourself in her shoes and stop spreading the rumors, when you aren't even clear whether it's true in the first place, and if it is,
then how would it affect you,
The teacher's a wonderful one,
and i don't think you should spoil her reputation.
& i told you before, if you don't stop it, i would go & approach.


All i ask for is for you,
to be more sensitive,
you're talking about lives here,
and the words you say are more breaking hearts then healing them.
Why don't you be more encouraging and motivating,
and not so negative.
You can change, you can be a better person,
but you don't give yourself a chance to do so.
I think i've said enough.
(:
Off to bury my head in books.
:D



I'm referring to no one in particular here,
so don't think i'm referring to you alright!

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